Please go start your own thread so that you are easier to keep up with.
Your situation can be handled, but you need to immediately address some issues therein.
Please post a history and include as many details as you can..
In the mean time. Do NOT leave your home for another job. Your wife will not miss you. The other man is meeting her needs. Leaving will just facilitate her affair.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.