Thanks for the pointers. This morning, W was at the sink, I slipped behind her, gave her a bear hug and kissed her neck repeatedly. She clamped down on my arms with her elbows, (in a good way) which was more than expected, considering she was cutting a grapefruit. After that, she showered, and I snuck another big back hug & neck kiss before she left, in case she forgot about me while she was in the shower. I knew better than to ask if she wanted company in the shower, as she was running late.

I will try to act mysterious, and GAL. I am going to a poetry reading next week, and will join the local gym, so I can start raquetball again. I am not the mysterious type, I suppose, as I always shared everything with W. She is beyond mysterious at this point, bordering on cryptic. As far as her staying home to hold down the fort, sadly we are still childless, and we have an independent cat, so I can go when and where I want. Considering that she is never home before 8:30, and last night 12:00, it is tough to be mysterious if I am home before her. I will keep up the contact (it feels good )and hope to take it beyond the simple touch at some point.

I screwed up on the bedroom deal, OOPS! So now I need to figure out how to get back in there. I played the crappy bed card yesterday, but I was already in the crappy bed when she got home. Maybe a trip to the chiro will convince her to share the good bed again.
I am checking this thread religiously, and will wait for approval before trying any crazy ideas again

Tomorrow, I will drag her out on a walk. THANKS!