I'm glad you found the thread useful Anything I can do that will help from my SSW perspective I'm willing to throw your way.
Divorce Busting does definitely have some good ideas in it. But I'm learning that not everything works in it as far as the SSW goes. All too often the HD person in the relationship that gets sooo frustrated just wants their SO to spontaneously show them affection.
We don't want to have to drag this out of our SO or try to interperet very subtle shows of desire that can be mistaken for affection you might show a friend. The SSH's have expressed these same wants/needs.
I think you are right that she's using her "schedule" to avoid you though. I would really suggest you asking her out on a "date", just like you used to do when you dated. This is something that tends to go by the wayside when people get married and find themselves a year or two (or much more) down the line.
The things we did when we were dating are often what attracted us to each other to begin with...and for some reason we tend to stop doing those things after we marry. Why? I don't know! LOL But we do. But it's important to maintain those things that our SO initially found attractive in us to begin with...dinners, movies, walks in the park, holding hands on the couch, long loving looks across a room...you remember.
Anything I can do that will help from my SSW perspective I'm willing to throw your way.
