Hey GEL-- Thanks for the hug. I guess I didn't edit my post quickly enough. I sent it and then walked away...then decided it's too personal for now.
I have talked with my wife. In fact, it came up several weeks ago before our first session with this great C. I didn't go into detail about it...in fact, I left some out...it's TOO painful a memory to discuss, even with her, right now. But, it was the W who first mentioned it to the C in our first session.
I'm not sure she completely understands how deeply it goes. At some point, when I feel strong enough, I will tell her everything.
