Hey LG, just checking in. It was terrific to see you over the weekend and catch up in person.
Molliew, I see your point, about control. But I don't think LG has any illusions about trying to control her H. I think she is working hard to discover the truth, in the only way she can-- since her H continues to lie and decieve. I think she is trying to get the information she feels she needs to assess whether she can continue in the M. Obviously this level of "control" or surveilance is not healthy over time.
Typically, "control" is an illusion anyway... we just teach people to be more clever in order to hide things when we attemnpt to control. At least that has been my (sad) experience.
