I am distressed to read what you have been doing? You are letting evil come in to your life again...What happened to "forgiveness?" Was it just for the moment thing???Please go back and search your heart as to what it is you want. You need to help your H...not bash him. Why worry about what your H was doing before. It is all in the past. You were OW remember? When you got involved with your H now, he was M to the first wife...So, quit throwing all that poison back at him. You have been a party to a break up of a family, his. Now God is saying he has not forgotten...So now you are experiencing ten times the pain of the A. You have to find it in your heart to be forgiving. Christ did that for us. No matter how bad we have been. Don't use the Bible to club your H with it. God wants you to love unconditionally. If you want to find dirt, you can always find them. Find the good that is with your H now. Nurture that instead. Don't bring it up anymore...Give it to God for Him to figure it out.