Hi LG, I just thought I'd throw my 1/2 cents worth in here. I've read your thread and read it. It's awful stuff, to be sure, but as the last poster said, it isnt about anything that has just happened, and I keep asking myself "what is bmow/fiance getting out of sharing this with you? I come up with only one answer: the chance to "get even"/make trouble by upsetting you. I ask myself a lot these days regarding the ow in my own sitch, and come up with that answer a lot.
I suppose another possible answer would be to ease her guilt feelings, but that doesnt explain why the fiance is jumping in there. Just a thought.
Another thought though: If she's doing this to make trouble, do you suppose what she's telling you is entirely accurate????? I just can't see that she's intending anything good for you by telling you this. IMHO
