I found the following on M Go Blue's thread in the MLC forum. I needed the info today. Thanks Paul.
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Let Go, Let God

Higher Power, help me to understand.


>To let go does not mean to stop caring; it means I can't do it for someone else.

>To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

>To let go is to admit to powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

>To let go is not to try and change or blame another, its to make the most of myself.

>To let go is not to care for but to care about.

>To let go is not to fix but to be supportive.

>To let go is not to judge but to allow another to be a human being.

>To let go is not to protect, it's to permit another to face reality.

>To let go is not to deny but to accept.

>To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue but instead to search about my own shortcomings and correct them.

>To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.


This message came from the book, Twelve Step Prayer Book, Second Edition.

A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.