Well, LG, I still find myself wondering - what do you know now that you didn't know before? You knew the kinds of websites he went on, you knew he met her there, you suspected there would have been others because of the nature of the site.
As for anything else - do consider the source. After all, BMOW is still making all kinds of excuses for her behaviors to this new guy, who is buying her victim act hook, line and sinker.
Quote: BMOW opened her account on AFF in April of 2003, due to being betrayed in a way by her ex-husband that would rock the foundation of any matrimonial sanctity. Her ex left her in a state of shambles and looking for affection and caring from anyone that would show her attention.
So it's her husband's fault she went on the kinky sex sites? Sorry, don't buy it.
Quote: To be exact, your H has (had) a list of about 10 men that BMOW "met" through the web site (there were not sexual encounters with all of these men).
Of course, this new guy wants to believe she didn't have sex with any of these other guys and that your H was the only bad guy that lured her into kinky adulterous sex - NOT!
Quote: She put her family life on hold to make sure he was taken care of, right or wrong. His telling her he loved her all the while and her believing it to the point of her looking for a job so she could leave her ex and forge her own life and see where it would lead with your H.
What a lovely martyr! Let's try - she swooped in and thought now she had her chance to get your H.
Quote: The problem laid in the fact that your H is VISUALLY stimulated by women with petite figures but is SEXUALLY stimulated by rubenesque women. This is not a assumption but something he told BMOW
I dunno - just because he said it to BMOW, does that make it true? We a;ll know what crazy things our H's say to justify their actions.
Look LG - I'm certainly not defending your H, what he has done is awful. I'm just pointing out the you already knew he met her on a "swinging" site, you already suspected there could have been others because of the nature of the site he was on. So what exactly is new in this communication, other than this poor pathetic guy buying all of BMOW's excuses as to why she was a victim in all this????
