I have read the 5LL and now do know not showing it in 'her' way was not helping my situation. I never said I'm not working on it, just how it was.
And yes, I do react with a laugh sometimes, and it's not on purpose, it just happens, somethings are said by WAW that are said so out there, I laugh at the wording, not at her or what I could have/should have done better.
Yes, It can be fixed over time, My point was that you seem to take his reactions as a direct personal attack against you, I'd just like you to think there may be other reasons for the eye-rolling, laughing, etc.
And yes, before 5LL, I showed missing her in MY way, I didn't know any better. So how else was I was supposed to react? I knew I missed her and thought I had shown it.
As you say, that being loving in considering how you will react about what's said. You can't control him or his reactions, they are his, but you can control yours.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but you are the one reacting to him rolling his eyes, laughing, etc. What would you do different if he didn't roll his eye or laugh? Would a good 180 be to ignore these reactions for now?
