Quote: I am reading DB. Do you think that mystery is a good thing right now since I am the one who committed the breach of trust? He doesn't seem to react well when I go places at night.
In my opinion, I don't think mystery on your part will do you any good. You said your H doesn't react well when you go out at night. That is understandable, and I'm sure you agree. I haven't read DB, but I have read DR. In it, Michele says you, the unfaithful one, need to offer reassurances to your H, the hurt one. Even if you don't think you should have to. So if you plan on going out, you need to give him details. Where you're going, who you'll be with, etc, etc.
With the intimacy issue, will he let you kiss him? What I mean is give him kisses on his hand, neck, bicep, etc while ML. Maybe try giving his ear a little kiss, too. If he allows this, maybe in time it will warm him up to the possibility of the kind of kissing you long for.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
