Hmmmm, this is a bit beyond what I understood DBing to encompass. I am thinking about it...would it be too chicken to test the water with an email. I just got one of those chain emails about "good thoughts and you have a friend" very much like the ones we used to send to each other. As for dancing at the wedding...I would just put that in the entertainment category...and that is not at threat!
Back to the issue at hand...I know I can't move on because I still love her too much to give my heart to anyone else. On top of that, there is the gigantic fear of being hurt like this again. Martha, I appreciate your insight, but I really am not angry with her. I am truly disappointed. From my perspective, she is handling this all like a very immature 12-13 year old and our C agrees. So how do you appeal to a spoiled immature person who has left because they didn't get their way? I know, be a friend...
