Quote: My suggestion (and yes...I'm advocating initiating contact) is to call her. Get you nerve up and do it. Say "I ran into so and so today.....or I ran across an old bill for whatever....or I was reminded of you today...and I just wanted to call and see how you and the kids are doing. Hope everything is okay." See how it goes. You'll know if it's not going good so just get off quickly with a "it was nice hearing from you again...have a nice night....bye" And get off the phone first. I dare you. Just do it and post how it went. I'm scared too. Scared that you are going to be dark up until the time she's married someone else.
