Quote: I told her in the letter I sent about a month ago that if she ever changed her mind about working on our R, I wanted to hear from her.
Dude, that was your first mistake. When you make comments like this to her, she thinks of the old R and everything that was icky to her about it.
You have to start from scratch and build a new R. Repeat after me.... NO R TALK! NO R TALK! NO R TALK!!!
Quote: I think she might just still be a little bit angry. Her way of dealing with tough things is denial...don't think about it, it will all go away in good time. Of course, that is really a bunch of poppycock and partially why our M went down the tubes.
I think you are more than just a little bit angry still too. This is a pretty negative comment about her, honey.
One of the things I've learned through DRing is that a lot of it is taking negatives and turning them around into positives.
Sooooooooooooooo, dude, what are you doing that's positive these days??? Huh???
