"doesn't have the slightest ray of hope" is just not true I still have some hope albeit weakening by the day. I do agree with you that she is showing me nothing. I know she misses me and she wrote back at the end of January that she "misses most the good things between us" but now she won't even write. Why that is I am just not sure. Maybe to make sure she doesn't encourage me to be hopeful? She is very stubborn...in fact, I think it is her stubborn nature that drove her to divorce me because the issue of her 21 year old daughter's disrespect towards me came up a bunch of times and in her responses to me, it was all my issue. It is pretty stubborn to take a position like that when I was trying to resolve a situation and make it better for all concerned. My wife insisted on having it her way or divorce...she never told me that, never declared the boundary or an ultimatum...she just got angrier and angrier and then left me and my sons (whom she claimed to love so very much, but not treats kind of crappy). I don't know what she thinks about. I know she wants nothing to do with me...either because she hates me or because it hurts her too much with the guilt of leaving me...take your choice. Wes, out of a total of 6 kids in the same house, the only one that was a problem was my xw's daughter...and she is the favorite of her mother and is over-indulged to the point you would not believe...even at the age of 21 years now.
I still have some hope albeit weakening by the day. I do agree with you that she is showing me nothing. I know she misses me and she wrote back at the end of January that she "misses most the good things between us" but now she won't even write. Why that is I am just not sure. Maybe to make sure she doesn't encourage me to be hopeful? She is very stubborn...in fact, I think it is her stubborn nature that drove her to divorce me because the issue of her 21 year old daughter's disrespect towards me came up a bunch of times and in her responses to me, it was all my issue. It is pretty stubborn to take a position like that when I was trying to resolve a situation and make it better for all concerned. My wife insisted on having it her way or divorce...she never told me that, never declared the boundary or an ultimatum...she just got angrier and angrier and then left me and my sons (whom she claimed to love so very much, but not treats kind of crappy). I don't know what she thinks about. I know she wants nothing to do with me...either because she hates me or because it hurts her too much with the guilt of leaving me...take your choice. Wes, out of a total of 6 kids in the same house, the only one that was a problem was my xw's daughter...and she is the favorite of her mother and is over-indulged to the point you would not believe...even at the age of 21 years now. 