Well, on May 6 I emailed her to tell her about a credit card account and that I would put a check in the mail for her share of the income tax refunds that I agreed to give her. She responded within 20 minutes...the fastest she has ever responded to an email since she left. Her email was pleasant, but not anything really more than that. So I finally wrote her a letter that I had wanted to write her in response to her letter of the end of Jan. I responded to a lot of her assertions about our R in a very loving, supportive and complimentary way. I had no anger in my letter, no accusations, no negativity at all. The check cleared the bank two days after she received it and I have heard nothing...not even a thank you. I did write that if she ever thought that all the positives in our R/M were worth trying to build something new around to please let me know. She continues to blow off my sons at church. I guess the stuff she wrote the end of Jan. about working at regularly letting them know she cared about them was total BS...or that she can't follow through on it for some reason. All of this continues to be so junior high in nature and our MC/my C whom I am still seeing says I should not be surprised as her actions have been rather immature through the whole thing. Oh well...
