Thanks Martha. The only 180 that I have done with respect to our M is going dark. Of course, we enjoyed daily contact during work hours before with emails, phone calls. After she left, she wouldn't respond to emails any more and that last time I spoke on the phone with her, she hung up on me. So I don't email or call her any more unless I have to which has not been an email since Feb. or a phone call since November. Going dark leaves little opportunity to show an 180s. I was a very supportive and doting husband...at least of my wife. I have even extended myself significantly on behalf of her daughter and my W's response at that time was to file for D two days later.
Yes, I am struggling. I go in and out of confusion. I have finally remembered that it is really all about her and until she gets that straightened out, the message is very clear she can't handle the complication in her life that my sons and I present for her. Truly very, very sad indeed.
