A much belated thank you for your response. I guess I have improved a lot on my PMA and come full circle to being a little depressed. My xw practically ignores my sons. I don't do anything with her 15 year old son, but he is a loner and there certainly has been no indication he wants anything to do with us...possibly out of deference to his mother's indifference to me and my sons. I have not seen my xw in nearly 3 months now. I have to send her a check for an agreed upon portion of my tax refund and I am thinking of writing her a letter with the check since I have not had any communication with her at all since mid-February. I just don't know what to do. I have no indications that she wants to communicate and I was the last to write between us. I feel very odd about expressing to her that I hope she is happy...I know I am not. I am coping, healing some, but definitely not happy.
