hope, thanks for dropping by. I am sorry that your sitch has taken a turn for the worse. Be good to yourself, be strong. Thanks for the advice, it is solid and you are right, that is what everyone says to do and there is really nothing else I can do other than turn it all over to God. I have done all I can. Interesting that Monday, I received a large envelope of papers from XW. They were all legal documents from the custody trial 1 1/2 years ago...she was supposed to return them to the agency that supplied them, but she just stuffed them in her desk and found them again last week when she was cleaning out her desk. She put a postit note on the papers and said it was my decision to shred them or not...she apparently has forgotten from whence they came and are the "originals." I will copy them and call the agency administrator as ask her if she wants them back...as well as explain why and how I got them.
I am having less and less feelings of anger toward XW as I continue to detach. I have really come to the conclusion that for her to become a WAW and just leave me and her stepsons without a real explanation or any efforts in counseling...well, it just shows a tremendous amount of selfishness and a true lack of personal character and lack of true commitment to US on her behalf. That being my conclusion, I just have to let go of her altogether.
