Quote: Do you think maybe your H could've just had a hard day at the office? Maybe work was a bit stressful for H yesterday, and his mood had nothing to do with you at all. You don't know what was bothering him for sure. Let it go and try not to personalize it. I know it's so hard
Thanks JV... and yes, maybe you are right... maybe is estress from job that is bothering him... and we tend to personalyze everything on out sitch...!!... mostly bc that same day, at morning, he sent me the message to my cell phone, he sounds so happy... and zás... at night i received a completely changed men... But, yes, it can be stress and lets think that...!!
So, lets journal the positive... 1. yesterday he was not in bad mood and i said him by by in the morning with a mouth kiss it seems he likes. 2. It seems he is capting i am thiner... he looks more at me and i had catched him many times while i am undressing or dressing... or when i am in pijamas (i am using the little one ).
About the bad ones... My C, after writing him an e-mail explaining the intimate situation h and i had and the change in his mood behavior had answered me: "I believe that the confusion of events and affections remains between you and H. There is no doubts that it is necessary for him to clarify more the things. I feel that your still have a great fear to mistake or to do something that finishes him moving away , but in him I feel that he does not know where goes. The erótico encounter does not guarantee that the things have been solved and that the couple isnt on risk . I think that, although it hurts a little, you must follow to be prepared for the bad news from his part. If he does not accept his emotions and his decisions with maturity the things are not going to improve in an stable way. Maintain your rate of work, your caring about yourself and kids, your friends, and acts as if there was not crisis. The decision from him is most necessary and important at this moment.
2. I sent him a nice Photo montage showin him and his partner fishing a bg big big fish... and saying... i have you always on my mind... hey... when are you going again fishing? (he loves that). There was no responde or comment at all. At this point there is a positive ones... this time i dont ask him if he receive it... no comment from me as i used to... and no recrimination at all bc his no responde at all. So thats all till now... stay around Andrea
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