Do you think maybe your H could've just had a hard day at the office? Maybe work was a bit stressful for H yesterday, and his mood had nothing to do with you at all.
You don't know what was bothering him for sure. Let it go and try not to personalize it. I know it's so hard -- I did it yesterday in my sitch . Although things are alright now , I know I MUST stop this before I REALLY mess up .
Be patient, positive, cheery, continue doing your own thing, and keep "dangling the bait" every now and then !
JV
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown