Andrea, I am sorry. I know how this feels. I think, though, that you should consult with a lawyer and find out what your rights are - don't just do what your H wants. Good luck!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim