Thanks for the advice on my thread, Andrea. I will try and be patient and see where things go. Although, he wants to move to another city, so I may not have a lot of time to think.

I have been following your sitch too, and understand how you must be feeling. I think your sister is right - don't enable his fantasy. Also, don't expect him to make you happy - do things for yourself. In other words, get a life of your own. Find other interests, hang out with your friends, and try and always act happy around him, no matter how miserable he is being.

Good luck!


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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