Thanks ellie for your words... i will try so hard to act "as If" but you didnt asnwered me... ¿Why each tme i talked to him seriously abpou D he changed his behavior and became more friendly or caring?!!!... maybe he is only afraid about finantial issue...!!... or maybe he is not so convince abput what he rally wants... !... and in the middle, it is me...!!... 3 years acting as IF... trying to share with him running training, climbing muntain and receiving a NO from him... so, i do it alone and he does it alone... i am wearing the same pants since 3 years ago, when he said i am thiner... i repeat, i am not obese... i am not so fat... and deffinattely i value much more than 5 or 6 kg less...!!... dont you think so??
