Oh, Andrea, I know how that feels - wanting to end the uncertainty by any means possible, even D.
But stop and take a deep breath: - first - if your H had cancer, but there was a chance he would recover from it in the next year, you would stay to see if he recovered. Just consdier his depression as being like cancer.
- even if you do end up divorcing, wouldn't you be in a better position financially if you spent the next year secretly preparing for it - getting a better job, saving a little money in secret, getting all the finances in order? That seems it would be wiser than jumping into a D.
