ok... it is time to resume my sitch and look for some comments from you... I went on friday to my Therapist sesssion... resuming his point of view, my h had a disociation since the first time he went out from home (September 2001)... thats is he dremas with two perfect world... ones, his familly, his dearest wife, his childs, all perfect... the other one... the world when he feels handsome, hormones active, young woman wanting this new handsome man (remembr he is now 60 Kg less)... My c hopes arent optimistics... this kind of disociation arent easy to superate... he will continue looking for that other world, even he maybe hasnt someone else, he will find it as he maintain the disociation... He advice me to: Be the woman i want to be, the ones who loves her marriage,loving him, being as affective as i want to be even he reject me... bc in that way i will obligate, force him to admit what he wants... a man that doesnt want affection, erotism from his w, will explode any time. he advice me not to make ay decission... let him take it and decide M to end... So i took that advice, and began my h therapy... sending him looving cell message, being affective... Next to continue
