Oh -
and Andrea - could he be upset because he was snooping on your PC and saw the word "divorce"? Maybe you should just talk to him about this - just say "I know you saw some things on my computer the other day. I have been participating in an online support group for people trying to improve their marriages. I just wanted you to know what that was."

Ellie
(BTW - I see I just posted that love languages stuff to you the other day! Guess my memory is failing!)