Hi everybody and i hopes you have a wonderfull weekend...!!
So, lets journal the positive the negatives and the road for my goals...
1- Afection goals
a- Today morning, just few minutes ago, he said only goodbye while i was dressing after giving me money... I didnt said anything, so... maybe he catch that wasnt the goodby way i want it... so, he returned and gave me a kiss
b- Yesterday i laid besides him at bed, with our kids all around, and he showed me affection, passing his hands through my back....

1- Communication Goals
a- Yesterday, saturday night, and friday night we had talked and enjoyed talking to each other and with friends about whatever...!!...
b- He shared with me his progression and sadness in running training (his leg is again hurted)

3- Myself Goals
a- Saturday, as he went flying with his partner frieds, i decided going to beach with my kids and spent a wonderfull day... so... he was surprised when he phoned me when he arrived asking me where we were and i said: we are at beach ... he again said... " at beach? and that?... and i only answered... yes... i was wishing to spent a time at beach so here we are...!! and i really enjoyed that beach day...

Some other 180:
- Yesterday, bc my Father in law birthday is this week and he wont be here, i decided to buy a cake, ask for chiness food, and invite all my familly in law and mother to home...!... in the past he was the one who ask for food, make the list, etc, this time i was the one who do everything...!!

Whats about the wrong things?!!
1- Friday night we had a fight after arriving from a dinner with friends... i had asked him money and he again reacted as i hate...!!.. so, i explode and said many many things i was reserving in my inside... But, i dont know, maybe wasnt so bad, bc after my speech and explotion, he changed acctitude through weekend and even now...!! I am wondering if he can really change that awfull issue i hate like being so personal and selfish... and not being care about my needs... but on satuday i had talked with a friend, the wife of a mutual friend, and bc what she told m, all man are a little selfish and a little anti details... so, my h isnt the only one..
2- I catched him snooping on my pc... and he saw michelle web page i have in favorite... when i standed beside he rapidly changed the web site but i saw it...!.. but, he doesnt know too much english and maybe he is wondering what is divorce busting...!!... maybe he is more afraid than secure about me looking on that page.. Divorce?!, why she is visiting that page?!!! So, after catching him, i changed that page to another carped he cant see it again in the future...
So, thats all till now... see you around...
Andrea