Thanks optimist for that special phrase
Quote:

"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"




So, i cant fnd any special event or thing that could trigger his depression and crisis... But some times i think i am the one who trigger it... bc before he began with all this i had made him a comment abot i was boring and needing afection... that i want to pass the rest of my life full of affection and loved... so... maybe he can live like we were living for ever, but i just remember him that we wee not the perfect couple... i dont know... you know, in this point of our long long R crisis i am so tired about thinking, that i get angry with myself when i began thhinkinh about the R... idont know if you can understand me? Right now he is normal, polite and talking both gently and happy... no touch nor affection, but we are there for each other and the children...