Thanks, Z! You helped me a lot on this one. I know he may leave when he is 18 but he might have gone with H here or not and that's ok. He has started his life and there is no stopping him now! He is a great kid and I know he is going to do well.

I love your creed. I've been thinking about lots of those things lately. Many of the opposites have been true for me cuz that is the way my family raised me. Part of the reason I am messed up! But I'm working on it.