Molliew,

Always remember this; no matter if your decesion is right or wrong, the bottom line is that your son will love you no matter what. It will take babysteps but lets look at reality here. He is 16 and within two years he is of age to make his own decesions. No one knows the future or can predict what will happen. So look at it that way. He will grow not only mentally but more intelligently as time goes by. Who knows by then, things will change, progress and then you'll look back and say, I made the right decesion. Always follow your heart. You're in my prayers