This is so hard. I talked to my C yesterday about this. She had lots of questions to make me think. One thing I realized is my H and I have to discuss this more. I've got to find out what he can live with regarding S16. He tells me he understands S16 is a good kid but he has to say something if he isn't doing what is "right". Or if I'm making a decision with S16 that isn't "right". I believe that is pretty judgemental on his part and I need to know if he can give that up.
S16 and I talked a little again last night and he isn't budging. He is very angry and doesn't want anything to do with H. He told me he wouldn't hate me if I decided to have him back but he didn't think he could ever forgive me.
Now I feel I have to choose between the two and it is breaking my heart. I have finally come to the point in my "recovery" that I feel confident that my H and I can make a new life together and he agrees--but this is a huge roadblock that I don't know if we can get past.
I hope none of you have to have this kind of stress added to your already stressful situations.
