Funny, my H just got a perscription for Effexor as well..How long does it take to "kick in"? Just curious..
The problem is that OW threw it out the window when she saw it..I did a no no and I got it filled in my name knowing that H wouldn't see a doctor. So, when OW saw it was a perscription with my name on it she flipped..Turns out, someone called me who found it and I returned it to H. Now he said he has to hide it from OW so he keeps on forgetting to take it..Like a bad soap opera..Give me a break.
My H has demons as well. That have nothing to do with me or M. I think he thought they all were because of me until I took myself out of the equation..Funny when that happens. I guess that is the good part of detaching..
You sound like you are doing very well, crushed..I am so happy for you!