I know how hard it is not to look at these H's and not want to hit them on the head with a pan to knock some sense into them.
My H left seven months ago and is living with his secretary. She is very much like a guy and H has no friends. I think this a relationship more out of convenience than anything. She is a nut and has a whole lot of baggage. And since the bomb, he has floudered several time and come back once in early Feb.
Did your H go through the MLC stages? I think my H is about to go in full blown withdrawl. I am not sure. He seems to be revisting the stages, anger, denial, depression, reconnecting, etc..Now he is not talking to his family or friends. Very little to kids..But he has seen them.
H also makes innuendo's about me dating, etc. I just blow them off. Keeps asking me about my personal life, etc, checks my cell phone and home phone id when given the chance.
I know they are in replay when they are with OW..But I am not sure..
Did your H reconnect with friends and family before he came home?
And, did he go on any AD's? My H has been given Effexor but OW doesn't want him to..He said he had to hide the perscription from her.
We also went bowling as a family yesterday. I kept it light and we all had fun.
Anyway, did your H have OW? And if so, how did he end it?
Just curious..I need to pick someones brain about all this stuff cause not too many people on MLC posts are going through reconnecting..It's like he has his feelers out and I am not biting the bait.
