MTN I still don't know if my H had MLC or something totally different. I remember when he found a book that a friend of mine gave me that delt with that subject. I was away (it was during the V-day weekend and we already reconciled) and he was cleaning the house. He got rather upset that I had that book. Had to explain to him that it wasn't really mine.
Whatever it was, it took him three and a half months to work through from the time he dropped that bomb. He said that it took him a year to build up to that point (he also said he wasn't happy from the very beginning of our R when we started to live together) - how much of it is true and how much was the "rewritten" history - I don't know. I'm passed the point when I want to bring it up to get answers. I still find myself looking at him when he doesn't know and thinking what a total A$$ he's been to me throughout that time period.
This too shall pass...I hope. If you have any more specific questions ask away - I am here to help as much as I possibly can.
