Sorry things are so tough. You are actually doing great. You are going to survive this and be really happy again one day.
How are your kids?
It is weird that she called you to talk. I bet her and OM got into some sort of arguement or she is trying to ease her guilt. Who knows? Did you ever find out if this OM was in the picture before your separation? I remember you could never quite put your finger on the situation.
It was nice to hear from you. Life isn't a bed of roses to still have the ex in your life. I think either path is difficult but in different ways. Hang in there.
Have you done much dating? Have you met anybody that is interesting? Don't stay a stranger forever and take care.
