XW really let me have it last night! I was 15 minutes late picking up the boys, which made her late for her appointment. I didnt realize she had to leave at 7 sharp. My mistake, but she wouldn't even acknowledge my apology. After I got home she called to "vent", to tell me that I was giving her a bad reputation by making her late for her appointment. She also told me I needed to get a cell phone so she could get ahold of me. I sat there and took it all, saying things like "I understand how you feel", "From now on I'll arrive early to pick the boys up".

This is really trying my patients! I keep telling myself she didnt mean half of what she said. I just dont know anymore.