It's sure convenient that she would apologize for not saying much to you then ask for a favor that really seems of questionable taste. Hmmmm. You can't stop her from contacting friends and family, but I'm with you...I'd also say "I would prefer you not contact them."
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
