Yesterday, XW called "just to talk" I thought oh boy, what does she want? She actually apologized for not saying much to me, in the AM when I picked S2 up for daycare. I told her we were both in a hurry and I thought nothing of it. We talked about a couple on things, things were going great. Then she brought up a subject off limits for me. Her new job includes selling finincial services. Months ago she asked me if she could contact my friends and family to talk to them about her services. I was not comfortable with it and told her I would preferr it if she didnt. Well she just happened bring it up yesterday towards the end of our conv. I just wonder if she is working me? Primerica is the company she works for and I believe they train folks to aggressively pursue contacts and potential clients. While the products may be on the level, I am not so sure about the tactics used to obtain a sale.
I feel like letting her contact my family and friends is being inconsiderate to them, and putting them in an awkward position. How would this make you feel?
With all this being said my plan is to take the conv at face value. If she brings it up again, I'll just politely say "We've already covered this subject and I would prefer not to talk about it again". I'm setting a boundry here.
