I dont plan on starting any legal action. Just doesnt seem right. For one thing I thought about my brother, he only got to see his son every other weekend. My xw sees them that much if not more. So I think of it as the traditional roles are reversed. Dont get me wrong, I want my boys all I can get them. Again, I feel that my saying no to her requests to watch them would lead to her getting a babysitter. I would rather they be with me than with a babysitter. This is my decision, if it gives her more freedom then so be it. It boils down to whats best for the boys. Besides its not like I dont take them to Grandma's every now and then. Part of me feels like she is taking advantage of me, and not taking enough responsibility for the boys. The other part of me knows I cant force her to spend quality time with the boys, therefore in the interest of the boys, I step up for the boys. Does this make sense?
Gabriel, My son who just turned 5 only knows that mommy has a house and daddy has a house. Your boy seems to know alot about what is going on with you and your W. What does he know and what did you tell him?
