Gabriel, your right, she is putting alot of effort into being distracted. It really bugs me that she doesnt make the effort to see the boys more. She is just to busy with other things to be a mother.
I was reading a book, which said that the most significant way to express your love is by giving your time. I believe this, and I give my boys quality time because I love them and they deserve it.
I have no idea what to do about the visitation thing. I dont think anyone can make her see the boys (she has to want to), and I dont want or need money from her.
I guess I will have to think on it. I have thought about talking with an attorney about the existing decree as it says she gets the boys in the event either of us move. I dont think this is right since I am the primary care giver. If nothing else an A could tell me how to get my ducks in a row in the event one of us moves.
