Quote: How do you truely let go of someone you love so much??
You won't completely let go for a long time. I spent the first couple years on and off after my first divorce wanting to get back together. I didn't know anything of DBing or GAL, I was alone and lonely in a new town separated by over a thousand miles from my kids. Know what? The actual getting over isn't easy. What finally got me over her was GAL and eventually getting a new woman. One day...no more hurt.
I think your most important step is to truly focus on yourself and your happiness. Do something good for yourself. Hook up with old friends. Whatever. But you need to completely let go and move on if you want any hope for reconciliation. If you do things right eventually you won't even think about getting back together and if it happens, then it can happen on your terms instead of hers.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
