I'll tell you about a 'disaster' date from the female point of view. I dated someone for a while and even on our first dates, he was always trying to kiss me, wouldn't get off me etc - and kissed like a vaccum cleaner, ugh.
His idea of a nice date was going down the fish and chip shop. The most exciting thing we ever did was watch a film and eat Chinese food.
The first sexual encounter was great, which mistakenly led me to believe the rest would be. I repeatedly told him that it was just fun for a few weeks, I was going through a D, didn't want an R etc.
The second time we slept together, he told me he loved me and kept saying it all the time. I made no response. Third time, he asked me to marry him, and kept asking 'don't you feel anything?' - I said it was just a fling as we agreed at outset (he was just D as well).
Then he got angry, said I misled him (even though I didn't) and ended up on depression meds for some kind of break down. He would text me 35 times in one day, call up all the time, even 6 months after I stopped seeing him.
He still called once or twice after H came back into my life and refused to leave me alone so I had to tell the police in order that he stop bothering me.
After police call I never heard from him again.
THAT is a disasterous dating experience!
He made my H seem really uncomplicated and easy going in comparision!
