Just updating here a little, XW called yesterday saying her schedule changed and asked if I could take care of the boys. I told her it wasnt a problem and would gladly do it. I thanked her for inviting me over for pizza the other night, even though I didnt go over I wanted her to know it was appreciated. She got dressed at the house for her meeting, she looked really good and I told her so. She gave me the standard "thanks" not looking at me. Maybe I should stop complimenting her. Its weird, because I'm trying to be dark, but I see her a couple of times a week because of the boys. Since I have to see her I try to make the meetings as positive as possible. Friday I'll be taking the boys to see their great grandfather (83 yrs old!). Saturday evening I'm going out to meet up with some girls I met the other night. Going to a bullfight and a dance later on. One of the girls really likes me. Not real sure how to handle this. I know the last thing I want to do is lead someone on or use them, thats not the kind of guy I am. I'm going to concentrate on having a good time. Any suggestions out there? Hope