There you go hope! Concentrate on Easter and the peace that is available for you in this celebration. With the going dark, you will find it easier to develop detachment which is what you need. By all means, STOP the PURSUIT!!! Sam is so right. I have to admit, there have not been any positives in my sitch with my xw, but she is still caught up in guilt and until she moves out of that and away from denial, everything is dead in the water. Patience is not only a virtue and a difficult lesson to learn, but must become a way of life for those of us with hope yet to be realized.
