Sam, Thanks for posting! Dont friends have lunch together? I asked her to have lunch with me and she turned me down cold. She says were not going to be the type of friends that spend time together. I think she is afraid that by spending time with me it will give me false hope. So do I just not ask to spend any time with her?
How do I let go more than I already have? She makes her own decisions, she lives in her own house, I know little about her daily activities. She is pretty much a stranger. What else do I do. How do I truely let go with my heart and soul? I think if I would stop backsliding (talking about R, asking her to spend time with me) I would know I've let go, but I still want those things, and occasionally it comes out. How do I let go?
