Tagg, All I can sugest is to keep to the high road. It'll payoff someday. I was lucky enough to have a "painless" divorce. If there is such a thing. Yes, they say things which make us believe they are a different person, but remeber these are usually emotionally charged and seldom have much truth.
I seem to be floundering. W closed on her house today. Last night she said she wanted to have me over for dinner one night. I was flattered to say the least, said that would be great. She still has a new man in her life, I guess? I just dont know what to make of it all. There is so much I dont understand. Dont mean to seem like a downer, but she shows no indication that she would ever even consider a romantic relationship with me. I know I should just concentrate on friendship and her friendship is important to me, but my feelings for her overwhelm me when I'm around her.
I know I should be thankfull I get to see her at all, but unfortunately no matter how much I have I always want more.