Hope, I wouldn't stop now...that is likely to prove to her it was a temporary 180 and all your changes are likely to short-term. I would certainly keep them up if you didn't get a negative response. You will continue to have contact with her because of the children...at least that is what I would expect. This will give you repeated and regular opportunities to demonstrate your changes. At least you have some contact with her...I have only the ocassional email when it is necessary.
