Quote: First, the build up toward the explosion. Just what exactly do you think this is caused by? I see the same behavior. In my H's case, it is about a 3 week time span, unless there is an event that pushes it up faster.
Mostly biochemical with my H, I think, although certainly if the housekeeping gets behind, that can set the ball rolling. It creeps up on me, I tend not to notice until it gets to the point where he is saying and doing outright irrational things.
Funny how they can't see themselves, isn't it? My brother dumped his third wife 2 months before my H dropped the bomb on me - but my H kept insisting he wasn't like my brother!!!! (Well, okay, he wasn't, because my H finally came back home, while my brother still has his head up his you-know-what).
