How are you doing? Seeking advice again. Still struggling with the trust issue. I had decided not to get any PI to follow H as think this just adds to the undermining of trust in the M.
I realise from other stuff that has happened that H does not appear to be up to anything. Here's the thing: I lost it big time last Saturday. Thought H was with some ow when he was at his bar with friends.
I accused him of lying, said I was sorry I ever met him, that it was a major mistake to marry him etc. You get the picture.
All of this was said calmly but constantly over Sunday.
I found out H really was at the bar all of Saturday.
Now H says he feels boxed in and trapped and that if this does not stop we need to go our separate ways.
I am scared but also angry. H was one who had an A, he will not acknowledge it and continues to deny and I'm the one to get my act together!?
Don't mean to hijack your thread. Any advice would be appreciated. How do I deal with this? I still want the M.
